Gurl talk about dating nowadays.

- “The person you’re meant to be with will never have to be chased, begged, or given an ultimatum”.

What is it about men who hound you down rather it’s in your DM or when you see that same guy who’s been trying to talk to you since forever when going out? If he’s attractive and your single you’ll finally give him the time of day thinking with all of this interest he so call have he must be serious. When you exchange numbers you both ask the basic get to know each other questions. Instead of asking to take you out he just asks you “wyd” a million times a day, texts back late, all of the signs of a bullshitter. Or you may have the guy who does ask you out on a date and the chemistry is perfect even thinking this one may work out but soon after he either starts to act weird or just goes ghost. That’s when you know he most likely has a girlfriend.

It’s the inconsistency that irks me that I know irks us all especially since we be minding our business and being disturbed by someone who knows they’re not ready should be a crime for wasting someone’s time you begged for. Now that he has your attention he has no clue what to do with it. I use to think when I was younger that older men know exactly what they want because they’re older they had plenty of time to play around. Well, I wrong. A lot of older men go after younger women for many reasons with a lot of them not having their shit together, not knowing what they want to do with their life, and not wanting to be in a committed relationship but still wanting all of the benefits. The older guys I have come across are way more confused than the younger ones. Getting past the talking stage is like getting out of a maze.